i’ve gone and done it. slipped and fell. let down all the defenses and admitted to him ~ and to myself ~ that i am in love. my confession was abrupt, unexpected and ill-timed ~ or maybe ideally. he was sitting on a plane. only minutes to share before the flight attendant’s insistence that all electronic [...]
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one today at a time
Posted in 30-something single, challenge, divorce and co-parenting, fear, life, parenting, relationships, simply me, tagged divorce and co-parenting, fear, love, new love, relationships, thirty-something single on November 9, 2009 | 1 Comment »
the road less traveled
Posted in 30-something single, divorce and co-parenting, fear, life, random, relationships, simply me, tagged life, love, relationships on August 2, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
i broke a rule i hold firm. crossed a line i didn’t even realize i was toeing. it was awkward at first. uncomfortable and uncertain footing in a new place that redefined things. i instantly regretted and wished it back, my common sense screaming at me to understand the potential repercussions. i vowed to stop [...]
save the drama for your momma
Posted in divorce and co-parenting, fear, life, parenting, random, relationships, tagged alcoholic, alcoholism, family, parenting, seizure on July 26, 2009 | 2 Comments »
i know that we’re not unique. every family has its issues. the black sheep, the skeletons hiding in the closet, the blame and strained relationships. sometimes i feel mine might very well be the epitome of dysfunctional but i’m sure most i were to ask, would feel the same about their own.
my brother is a [...]
tonight
Posted in 30-something single, challenge, divorce and co-parenting, fear, life, parenting, random, relationships, simply me, tagged fear, life, love, relationships, unrequited love on March 3, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
tonight i fully came to realize that i have a heart. it’s caring and true and will always offer purity to those that don’t take advantage of its lingering innocence.
tonight i fully came to realize how lost some people truly are. how sadly shut off they can be from the beauty of self-actualization, honesty and [...]
i surrender
Posted in 30-something single, divorce and co-parenting, fear, life, parenting, random, relationships, simply me, tagged divorce, divorce and co-parenting, fear, life, relationships on February 16, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
i let him into my words. invited him here to read some of what i do not share. i let him into my heart. ignored warnings and honest advice i should have heeded. it’s not his fault. i saw the writing on the wall blog. heard the words he spoke. yet still i chose to believe i had [...]
disney world dad
Posted in challenge, divorce and co-parenting, fear, life, parenting, relationships, running, simply me, tagged disney marathon, disney world dad, divorce, divorce and co-parenting, parenting, running on September 8, 2008 | 1 Comment »
as much as the title of this post likely sounds as though it will some how tie into my disney marathon training, it really has very little to do with it. the term “disney world dad” refers to a father that spoils his kid(s) after a divorce be it from guilt or insecurity with the parental relationship. maybe [...]
nickles and dimes
Posted in divorce and co-parenting, relationships, tagged co-parenting, divorce, money on August 8, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
i have never been the “bitch ex-wife”. i bend over backwards to ensure my daughter sees a positive relationship between her parents and i like to think that in many ways so my does my ex-husband. he’s a good dad. a good person. we’re complete opposites and there are plenty of things about him that [...]