opposing council

May 23, 2013 at 5:31 pm 1 comment

i had another date last weekend. two actually. with the same guy. another attorney. i’ve never dated an attorney in my life and suddenly i’m dating two? that practice the same kind of law! i can’t help but wonder if they know each other but i think i’ll refrain from asking that potentially awkward question šŸ˜‰

attorney number two ~ who for blog purposes shall be named the energizer bunny or EB for short ~ is an online find. yes i am trying that world again. after a few emails and phone calls we met for drinks friday night. it was a planned early night as i was riding the next morning and couldn’t stay out late. which ended up being a perfect strategy for a first date since it gave me an early out had it not been going well. but turned out he was kinda fun. a little hard to get a read on. and a little all over the board in conversation but funny. so saturday when he called and invited me to come hang by his condo pool for a bit before meeting a couple of his friends out for drinks i happily joined him. sun and fun then a great afternoon and evening with one of his friends and the woman he’s dating. i found myself more and more endeared to him as the day went on. sarcastic wit is one of those personality traits i need and the banter that came naturally between all four of us was perfect. unfortunately there wasn’t a high physical attraction level. there is some. more than enough to keep the options open but i can’t help but think back to my first date with the hunter and the immediate chemistry that built all evening and led to the intensity of that first kiss and i want to feel that again. but given where the hunter and i ended up maybe that’s not the way to go.

and speaking of chemistry, or lack thereof, i had planned on giving up on the pilot for just that reason but sunday he sent me a text asking to meet for a glass of wine and i figured it couldn’t hurt. i really enjoy his company and he intrigues me so i’m trying to keep an open mind. as expected we had a nice afternoon and the goodbye kiss was even a little better than the last.

so tonight the pilot is cooking for me and tomorrow night EB is taking me out to dinner. i’m not sure either is what i’m looking for long term but i see no reason i can’t enjoy them both for now. and besides, you never know when you may need a good lawyer and i’ve now got two!

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i found one ganging up on the knee

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  • 1. Miss Mile High  |  May 25, 2013 at 8:06 pm

    Yes! Enjoy both of them, which it seems is exactly what you are doing.


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